A Room of Our Own
A space for queer women and non-binary people who enjoy lively, honest and interesting conversation, good food, and meeting people beyond their usual circles. A space for you. Each time we will bring a spark - a guest, an idea, a subject - to ignite conversation and see where it takes us.
A place to be and to belong.
“One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dined well”
Virginia Woolf A Room of One’s Own 1929
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Our Room in Autumn Dinner | November 19th 2026
June 19, 2026 | 7pm | The Groucho Club, London
THE EVENING
What to expect from our evenings
The evening includes
A shared dinner in a welcoming setting
A short reading from the work of a queer woman
A conversation with a queer guest speaker
An unhurried space for talking, listening and laughing
Since we first had this idea, we’ve heard the same thing again and again: queer women and non-binary people are looking for spaces to connect more deeply, laugh more loudly and leave feeling part of a community.
A Room of Our Own is designed to offer exactly that.
A gathering for queer women and non-binary people who value authentic conversation, good food, and new connections.
Inspired by Virginia Woolf’s idea that women need rooms of their own, these evenings create a space where we can come together without performance or expectation. No networking. No panels. Just us.
Each dinner aims to bring together people from different backgrounds, generations, professions, interests - all united by curiosity and openness - and, of course, queerness!
FINDING EACH OTHER
Who is coming to this event?
Places are limited to 20 guests.
We have a simple “first come first served” approach.
You can come on your own or with a friend or friends that you think would also enjoy the experience. We anticipate many people will come on their own and the space is designed to build connections.
We want to encourage the rich diversity of backgrounds and life experiences that we know queer women and non-binary people embrace.
We don’t plan to advertise or market these events - so please share with anyone who you think might be interested and want to be added to this or future invites
We hope our guests will help us to include people of all ages and stages of life, professional and creative interests and identities within the queer women and non-binary community.
Should we find we are oversubscribed and cannot accommodate everyone, we will make every effort to include people who were disappointed at future dinners.
It is our expectation that we will always respect each other’s points of view and leave the room as friends.

